Virginity is a very important (as they say) element of the feminine gender. But to know the exact time when you should lose your virginity is a very complicated question. We cannot answer that question like a philosophical, deep minded sex-expert and technically, no one can. We can give you some guidelines that are sure to help. So, here is a list of 7 things on the most asked question by the females.
What is the Best Time to Lose Your Virginity?
1. P in V is Not the Fact
Losing your virginity will involve penetration and you must accept that. But by penetration, I don’t mean the Penis only. It can also have a dildo involved or even happen during masturbation. The fact is penetration is imminent to lose your virginity and even a spicy anal session can cause that, just don’t ask how.
2. ‘Popping the Cherry’ Myth
Your elders will tell you to go easy as there will be a lot of blood in the activity. That’s not entirely correct. Some girls are born with lesser number of tissues that make the hymen and in some rare cases; there is no hymen at all. You can bleed a river out of you but the possibility is less and mostly not. So, the next time somebody suggests you a new idea on this case, try avoiding and start exploring. You only lose it once.
3. Hymen Check
The biggest nonsense is to determine the virginity by hymen check. As mentioned earlier, some are born with a weak hymen that includes lesser number of tissues and some are not born with it at all. So, you may also lose it during dancing, gymnastics and other physical activity (sex included).
4. It Doesn’t Have to Hurt
The myth is common but not entirely real. You may face a little sting as the hymen is bound to break and is a skin but not that much. If you are facing pain then there is a good chance that you are not aroused. If you are aroused then you will not feel pain and even if you do, it will be overwhelmed by pleasure. Don’t believe me? Try it out yourself.
5. Warming Up
Arousal not only helps to ease it up but also makes the erection lasts longer so more fun all the way for everyone. If you are facing some issues arousing, you always have Google at your fingertips. There is another way if you are not allergic and that’s the lube. If the lube suits you, you can have a great time passing the big train in and out o f you.
6. Orgasm is Not the Goal
If this is your 1st time then there is a good chance that you will not have an orgasm. The fact that it might be a little painful can take the whole pleasure thing off. In other words, get the seal ripped off for the first time and then flush as much juice as you want to from the next time you do.
7. You Can Get Pregnant the First Time
If you are expecting a free pass because you are a virgin, forget that instantly. If the ejaculation happens inside, you may end up having a bloated belly and that will not be gas. So, think about some birth control before you go and preferably before going naked.
Losing virginity is a big issue that can freak out many girls. In reality, it is nothing but trying the most pleasurable thing in this world for the first time. If you think that you are reserving for some special moment, you are just missing all the fun at the right time maybe.